Habits and identity are connected in the way I think about goals. Finishing one task matters, but so does becoming someone who returns to the practice. These examples move from a single achievement to the kind of person doing the work.
- The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader.
- The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner.
- The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician.
- The goal is not to learn for a test, the goal is to become a lifelong student.
- The goal is not to get a bachelor’s degree or license, the goal is to become a teacher.
- The goal is not to take some flight training lessons, the goal is to become a pilot.
- The goal is not to go to the gym, the goal is to become an athlete.
- The goal is not to write blog posts, the goal is to become a writer.
To make a habit yours, you must become the habit.
The habit should be part of your identity.
Then it will stick.
One way I make identity practical is through the promises I keep to myself.
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