Personal growth

Realize that you create your life

Valon Asani · · 1 min read

Valon Asani

Choices and responsibility are the ideas behind this personal reflection on creating a life. I focus on perspective and action, themes I also return to when discussing the next choice after the past.

Choices and responsibility in the next step

If we people would realize and fully understand just ONE thing, we’d be doing well instantly:

YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE.

It’s all your decisions.
Your perspective on life is part of it.
It’s all your thoughts, which are creative.

Your thoughts = Your reality.

You can end pain any time.
It is possible to end suffering any time.
You can change your perspective on life any time.

At any time, you can say “Yes, I can” instead of “I can’t”.

It’s your decision.

Your current situation is fully your decision which comes from your thoughts – consciously and/or sub-consciously.

You’re exactly at this point in your life because of the thoughts you had and therefore you created this life situation. Whatever it is. You made it, it didn’t happen to you. It’s you. Always was and always will be.

So, take responsibility and change (if needed).
You can. You’re the creator of your life.

Realize this and you can have the life you really want and you can stop suffering now.

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