These three big life questions ask where, with whom and how you want to live. They connect with finding yourself through your choices: identity is also something you practice in the people and habits you choose.
Answer the three big questions in your life:
– Where do you want to live?
– With whom do you want to live?
– What do you want to do?
Take your time to do so – probably at least 1-2 years.
To become “it” you have to:
1) You read about it.
2) You accept it.
3) You know it.
4) You understand it.
5) You explain it.
6) You feel it.
7) You are it.
What you do + with whom = You.
You are a combination of the people you spend the most time with and your habits.
You + it = the final You.
- Answer the three big life questions
- Take actions (from 1-7)
- What you do and with whom



