Relationships
When you find your love
Finding your love is finding yourself. It’s finding your path and a person that really gets you, because you get that person, because it’s…
VALON ASANI
Writing & reflections.
Relationships
Words I didn’t remember
While explaining to Eduard some parts that I had read in the books ‘Atomic Habits’ and ‘The Almanack of Naval Ravikant’ I couldn’t explain…
Business & technology
Three ways to find your dream job
To find your dream job, it helps to ask what kind of work would fit your values and interests. These are three possibilities I…
Personal growth
Yes and No
Learning to say no matters when saying yes to someone else means ignoring yourself. I connect this with self-respect and keeping promises: agreement should…
Personal growth
Startups can’t escape reality
Startup product-market fit cannot come from a polished appearance alone. Real people have to want what you are building. That is why specific feedback…
Personal growth
You vs. them
Protecting your attention starts with noticing what competes for it. The contrast below is deliberately blunt: what you want for your life can differ…
Personal growth
Path to become You
These three big life questions ask where, with whom and how you want to live. They connect with finding yourself through your choices: identity…
Personal growth
Easy Level Up
A daily habits challenge gives a list of intentions somewhere to become visible. My list below covers reading, reflection and movement. It also connects…
Personal growth
Believe
Believe in yourself when doubt makes your next step feel smaller than it could be. This motivational piece speaks to the same need as…
Personal growth
Why are we so disciplined with our bad habits?
Unlearning bad habits was the starting point of this experiment with what I drank. Instead of adding one more routine, I first wanted to…