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Designed to win – programmed to fail.

Valon Asani · · 2 min read

Valon Asani

Changing habitual patterns is the point behind the daily reminder in this post. I use the language of programming to describe learned behavior, connected with unlearning an old habit before repeating it again.

Changing habitual patterns

We are designed to win, but we are programmed to fail.

Our nature is to win, to grow, to evolve, to win. We are designed that way, we are created to win.

We will win, but we really need to beat the programming, and the way to go is to reprogram ourselves.

And one simple rule to reprogram your mind:

A reminder to connect knowing and doing

That’s it, reprogram yourself with that learning every day:

Say it 11 times each morning:

  1. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  2. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  3. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  4. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  5. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  6. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  7. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  8. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  9. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  10. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.
  11. I know what’s good for me, I do it. I know what’s bad for me, I don’t do it.

You’re not sure what’s good or bad for you? Feeling is the secret.

Do what does you good. Say it. Do it.

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