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A passport does not build your courage

Valon Asani · · 2 min read

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Passport and courage play different roles in the choices you can make.

A stronger passport can open a border. However, it cannot make the decision to begin for you. I have lived between countries, and I care about that difference.

I do not mean that every country offers the same opportunities. Papers, circumstances and responsibilities affect what is possible. The question I want to ask is more personal: within the room you have, what are you choosing to do?

It is easy to turn a place into an explanation for everything. Sometimes a barrier is real and needs a practical solution. Sometimes waiting for a different situation becomes a way of postponing the first attempt.

Passport and courage: separate the obstacle from the next step

Write down what is outside your control. Then write down one action that is available to you now. Also, keep the two lists separate. You do not need to deny a difficulty to look for a next step.

“All in” does not have to mean a dramatic decision or risking everything. It can mean taking one promise to yourself seriously. Learning a skill. Finishing a piece of work. Having a conversation you keep delaying.

Make the action concrete

Next, choose something small enough to do and meaningful enough to matter. Put it in your calendar. Decide what finishing it would actually look like. Commitment becomes easier to recognise when it has a shape.

Rather than asking whether you are already a courageous person, ask what a courageous next action would be. For example, it might be asking for help. It might be admitting that a plan needs to change.

After all, your situation deserves an honest assessment. So does your own capacity to act. Pick one step for this week, take it, and look at what you learned. You can value where you come from without asking a passport to decide who you become.

For example, choose a time to review that one step after trying it. What became clearer? What still needs help or information? Keep the answer specific to the action you took. A small attempt does not settle every question about your future, but it can give the next decision a firmer starting point.

Valon answering a viewer’s comment about a Swiss passport and courage to leave Switzerland

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